DannyL

Wild Horses
Sorry to hear about you being assaulted Danny, that's horrible.

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Cheers. Long time ago now. And it's not like it wasn't my fault in one instance at least. The cocktail of straight men, booze, sexual frustration (and coke these days) is loads more dangerous than imaginary bum sex.
 

luka

Well-known member
Cheers. Long time ago now. And it's not like it wasn't my fault in one instance at least. The cocktail of straight men, booze, sexual frustration (and coke these days) is loads more dangerous than imaginary bum sex.

From what Martin says Danny is the one dishing out. The Punisher.
 

luka

Well-known member
I know, and it's a pity that you're not interested when you get moved out of your comfort zone.

i get that it's hilarious to tell people they're gay. I was at school too. I remember. But you've done that now! You've had your fun!
 

yyaldrin

in je ogen waait de wind
What if she was just trying to find out if you were straight because she sensed you might be and in fact fancied you?

no wasn't the case. she had told me about her coming out just before she asked me that. in that sense i do sometimes feel an intruder because you're in a space where people assume they share a common background with the rest of the people there. don't know, a shared trauma maybe?
 

baboon2004

Darned cockwombles.
It feels like the conversation on sexuality on this forum lags about 30 years behind the rest of the conversations. And that's worth pointing out.
 

baboon2004

Darned cockwombles.
i get that it's hilarious to tell people they're gay. I was at school too. I remember. But you've done that now! You've had your fun!

Lol, you can't answer it seriously, which is so interesting. I'm actually bemused - why not?
 

luka

Well-known member
If anyone wants to talk about what I was actually saying as opposed to what they really wish I was saying then of course I'm happy to do that.

But you want to be competitive and adversarial and points scoring. And I can't be arsed. Not today anyay.
 

luka

Well-known member
Drop the ridiculous Gotcha! attitude, youve slipped up now! Attitude and sure,we can talk.
 

sadmanbarty

Well-known member
baboon, it might be more constructive to quote the specific posts you're talking about. at least from my perspective it seems you're having a bit of a straw man conversation debating truisms that all of us on here accept.
 

baboon2004

Darned cockwombles.
If anyone wants to talk about what I was actually saying as opposed to what they really wish I was saying then of course I'm happy to do that.

But you want to be competitive and adversarial and points scoring. And I can't be arsed. Not today anyay.

My last post here because I too cannot be arsed any more, but you are projecting like crazy. I made a point you weren't capable of addressing. Fine, but don't blame *me* for not talking about what was actually said!

I think it's sad that a forum that prides itself on being open to difference in the culture it lionises, can't have a discussion about male sexuality and normalised homophobia without this happening. And i'm not being 'right-on' or whatever minimising term you choose to use - it seems a very basic discussion in the year 2020.
 
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luka

Well-known member
baboon, it might be more constructive to quote the specific posts you're talking about. at least from my perspective it seems you're having a bit of a straw man conversation debating truisms that all of us on here accept.

Second this baboon. Sorry but you thought you smelled blood in the water when it was ketchup all along.
 

sadmanbarty

Well-known member
Second this baboon. Sorry but you thought you smelled blood in the water when it was ketchup all along.

i think so too.

which is fine, it happens to all of us.

it'd be nice if there were no hard feelings between anyone. a bit of a misunderstanding is all.
 

luka

Well-known member
i think so too.

which is fine, it happens to all of us.

it'd be nice if there were no hard feelings between anyone. a bit of a misunderstanding is all.

And tbf it was me that squirted the ketchup as bait. So I have no right to complain.
 
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