What's your favourite Adele song?

thirdform

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Same with the Migos vs Keef battles we had on here in 2018-19. I didn't rate that lot post no label II, but they at least managed to evoke an emotion of really base aerobics instructor instant satisfaction.

I can't hate Adele because there's nothing to hate there. It's like talking about bland studied tech house records. yeah ok they do their job and sound crispy clean but that's it.
 

thirdform

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I think the first two Dido albums are great because they disguise really bleak, alienated sentiments in the language of post-club pop techniques, she might sound posh and plain but lyrically there's some really direct and heavy stuff about modern life that makes more sense to me the older I get

Why does it need to be disguised in pleasantry though? Why not take it straight to the vein like good heroin. Disguising can also be a synonym for badly cut.
 

thirdform

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I don't like regular saturday night clubbing though. I much prefer dirty warehouse raving. So of course I'll never understand the post-clubh comedown. I used to go home and get even more hammered and then go into lectures or do web design work. Clubbing with its sunday downtimes never made sense to me, the only time I did that I went to see theo parrish on 2 grams of mdma powder after drinking half a 750l bottle of rum in 20 minutes with a mockney tory bird on the train. then beers+fake absinthe+even more powder at the club it was fucking fantastic but i can hardly remembver any of it all i remember is buzzing well into the next day - no idea if theo's set was any good. But the week after that I kind of realised i could have done that all at home and had a good time so i vowed to moderate my drink/drug intake when i go out, so the utopian aspect of clubbing never grabbed me unless i was really, really =really out of it. No, I want to be deep fucked by sound and brought to the point of orgasm through sheer apocalyptic disorientation and psychosis.

So there were like no sad broken dreams to come down from. usually I'd put on some black dog or 94 era ltj bukem or aretha or whatever. Like, not some kind of radiant E-fuelled afterglow. And also why do you need Dido when you have that one Natalie Imbruglia song anyway. You can just stick that on loop. It perfected the form.
 

boxedjoy

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I should know better than to try to engage with you on a topic you've made your mind up to ignore the liminalities of so you can indulge in your own hobby-horses irrelevant to the conversation, but nonetheless:

the point with Dido isn't spontaneous alchemy or unrehearsed performance - it's the sound of everyday, downtrodden misery and frustration. Everyman recognisable misery. The sad recognisation of I deserve nothing more than I get because nothing I have is truly mine. The performance here doesn't require showmanship or authenticity (whether affected or otherwise) because the feelings and sentiments of Dido's music aren't designed to be outsized and powerful, they're resignated and frustrated, the quiet sigh of not anger or lust or frustration but the jaded ennui of missed opportunities and lost potential.

when I use the word "disguised" I don't mean that there's nothing masked there - it's hiding in plain sight, and easy to brush off if you're not paying attention, but blatant in its descriptions of the misery and trudge of post-modern life. The Tesco-mum-listener diss (which, by the way, is a reflection on an imagined audience and not the music itself) allows this stuff to be quietly subversive in a way that Adele or whoever isn't, because the subject matter can be darker than the surface level of glossy sheen and contemporary (then) production lends itself to.
 

thirdform

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I should know better than to try to engage with you on a topic you've made your mind up to ignore the liminalities of so you can indulge in your own hobby-horses irrelevant to the conversation, but nonetheless:

the point with Dido isn't spontaneous alchemy or unrehearsed performance - it's the sound of everyday, downtrodden misery and frustration. Everyman recognisable misery. The sad recognisation of I deserve nothing more than I get because nothing I have is truly mine. The performance here doesn't require showmanship or authenticity (whether affected or otherwise) because the feelings and sentiments of Dido's music aren't designed to be outsized and powerful, they're resignated and frustrated, the quiet sigh of not anger or lust or frustration but the jaded ennui of missed opportunities and lost potential.

when I use the word "disguised" I don't mean that there's nothing masked there - it's hiding in plain sight, and easy to brush off if you're not paying attention, but blatant in its descriptions of the misery and trudge of post-modern life. The Tesco-mum-listener diss (which, by the way, is a reflection on an imagined audience and not the music itself) allows this stuff to be quietly subversive in a way that Adele or whoever isn't, because the subject matter can be darker than the surface level of glossy sheen and contemporary (then) production lends itself to.

Oh I'm not using housewife as a diss. Some of my favourite 70s turkish schmaltzers are archetypical housewife soul. It's more that if I'm looking to music to express ennui, then what's the point of listening to music? Seen as ennui indicates a state of resigned indifference. Furthermore you're kind of proving my point by breaking it down as an outsider, inasmuch as you can self-critically be like look, she doesn't write powerful songs. It's a fundamentally elitist, learned sympathy. What people call ironic listening these days. But she studied music, you can't just brush that off as being irrelevant to the discussion.

The same people who venerate dido are also likely to dismiss rap as lumpen, hooligan music, so I don't think the parallels are irrelevant. Yes, alienation is universal, but there is seeing power in your alienation to oppress or be a bigot, and realising that your alienation is destructive and fundamentally toxic. Hip Hop unmasks this in a way that this very British trend is unable to.

And can we please stop with the hobby horse diss. This is a forum. It by default invites argument.
 

luka

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"It's a fundamentally elitist, learned sympathy."

I could definitely regard a whole range of my spectrum of affect in this way. I wouldn't particularly want to, but it would fit, if I didn't squirm too much.

But I liked Boxed joys writing on Dido. And I don't think he's going to or should surrender.
 

boxedjoy

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And can we please stop with the hobby horse diss. This is a forum. It by default invites argument.
but what you've done prior to this isn't good arguing. You've thrown post-punk, electro, garage, London and Sizzla at the wall to see what sticks. There isn't anything you're saying here that makes me reconsider my position on Dido or enlightens me on to why you (or anyone else) is actively against it. That's not really a debate, it's wilful disengagement. I don't even want to have The Big Dido & Adele Discussion really (I think Fisher said it best on Dido already).
 

mvuent

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dido named her son after eminem because he sampled her in that song. mutual respect between two geniuses.
 

thirdform

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yes, and you are also conspicuously ignoring why Fisher ignores black music that does (what you perceive Dido to be doing) the same. that is the whole point. Look, Mark had a reactionary streak running through him. I can quote it here:

My own views on hip hop are well known. Here are some reasons why I don't like it any more:

1. Black indie. Yes, yes, hip hop is very diverse from a certain POV, but the same case could be made for indie. The reality is that hip hop, like indie, is in the main massively conversative and inertial. Like indie, it serves a consumer base who will be loyal to it no matter what. The difference is that no-one would be mad enough to pretend that indie is cutting edge, whereas ppl still, ludicrously, make that case for hip hop.

2. Tedium. Unlike Tim F, I have no interest whatsoever in guns, hos and booty. I find them boring. Hearing actual ppl talk about such things would be extremely boring, why does it become interesting over a breakbeat? (And it really isn't the case that I 'thought that about hip hop before I was into it' - I really did like hip hop in the 80s, when it was a modernist force, not a complacent cartoon.) Hip hop keeps black males in blackface.

3. Ethics. A logic that can only be called racist excuses all this. If white males were engaging in misogynistic, violent discourse, they would presumably be condemned. The licence given to the black males of hip hop reflects what? A sense that this is 'all that can be expected' of them? Or a 'liberal' causal argument that this is the effect of their social conditions etc? Either way, the message is that less can be expected of black males than of other groups.

4. Masculinism. Consider the posturing of the hip hop male - that frozen swagger, the conspicuous refusal to engage with others except from a position of imperious hostility. It's ugly and unpleasant, and what it represents is FEAR, not confidence. I have to deal with the consequences of this behaviour on a day to day basis. It contributes to a situation in which black males achieve much less than almost any other social group in education, with obvious knock-on effects for life chances, employment etc.

5. Contracted horizons. Hip hop produces a double trap for the underclass black male. He is already trapped at the level of the social, marginalized, unemployed or underemployed; but hip hop also traps him at the level of fantasy. Hip hop's utopia is only a grotesque hyperbolized version of capitalism; in his dreams, the hip hop male still acts like a slave (to the reality principle). In other words, hip hop is Capitalist Realism.

6. Fashion. Hip hop has a HORRIBLE effect on male fashion.

(btw, did anyone see Ekow Eshun's piece on Biggy Smalls as his hero in the Independent the other week? In a year replete with rubbish journalism, that nevertheless stood out for its embarrassing cluelessness...)
 

boxedjoy

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when I say Dido's music isn't designed to be powerful I think I'm being imprecise here: the performances are deliberately not powerful and within that small, hermetic delivery there comes a certain emotional effect. Or rather the power comes from not being a powerhouse performance. And I don't think it codes as outsider positioning to say that I find those inward-looking lyrics and performances relatable and familiar in everyman recognisable misery.
 

thirdform

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when I say Dido's music isn't designed to be powerful I think I'm being imprecise here: the performances are deliberately not powerful and within that small, hermetic delivery there comes a certain emotional effect. Or rather the power comes from not being a powerhouse performance. And I don't think it codes as outsider positioning to say that I find those inward-looking lyrics and performances relatable and familiar in everyman recognisable misery.

Yeah, but shook ones, pt2.
 
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