I think also to be able to say something about living differently, new ways of relating, would give a bit of optimism. That video - its more of the world's cruelty but its compounded and made worse by the inevitability attached to it - nothing will change. I'm sure he feels like this as well, thus the frustration.I think also having good relationships with all kinds of different people will break up the instafilter/beauty tyranny also. Not completely but the more you hang around with ordinary mates the more you appreciate different kinds of beauty I think and value more than looks. Fucking hippy that I am.