Clinamenic

Binary & Tweed
Stan, bless him, is probably not going to help clarify any of these questions, he just wants an excuse to use the word qua repeatedly.
Its a great tool. It allows you to open up a word and specify it in a certain capacity.
 

sus

Well-known member
"At the end of the day" is an unassumingly beautiful phrase. The decision must be made by nightfall. We cannot go to sleep with conflict unresolved, our mind undecided. At the end, there is perspective, at the end, an opportunity for grace. Minevera's owl etc. We lay down our arms and set aside details. We zoom out. We focus on only the load-bearing, everything else blurs.
This was a nice lil post I hope someone bookmarked it or is taking notes
 

sus

Well-known member
Why isn't Luka back, why is he getting drunk with Woops in some crusty ass bar instead of posting content for the board
 

luka

Well-known member
i was in the pub with wild greens. he was happy becasue southampton got a draw out of manchester city.
 

sus

Well-known member
Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Ok here's my question tho: how you gonna create a dark fantasy aesthetic, sing panty-dropping lyrics, but then your texts are like.. "u up?"

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
Bro. You put in so much work. You got the haircut, the clothes, the music, the jewelry, the eyeliner.

And then at 12am you're like

"wyd"
8:33 PM · Oct 11, 2017·Twitter for iPhone
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Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Replying to
@ardensirens
HOW ARE YOU GONNA GO THAT FAR AND THEN STOP. WHAT IS THE POINT OF CREATING A FANTASY PERSONA IF YOU'RE NOT LIVING IT.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
It's like, I'm picking up what you're putting down. I see what you're creating. Fuck yes I want that. I'm all in.

And then it's like "heyy"

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I'm like "I feel so embodied with you, I feel every nerve ending, every cell connected, to the tips of my fingers"

"it's probably the weed"

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
MY HEART. IT BREAKS. 💔💔💔

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I swear, some of my best work just goes to waste.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
A lot of guys use fuckboy lingo to signal intent, communicating they don't want a relationship. OK BUT THERE ARE SEXIER WAYS TO SAY THAT.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I'm not talking about those creepy LARPy dudes who go around pretending they're Casanova with every woman. That's just gross and try-hard.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
But if you're getting a green light and going in for the kill, FOR FUCKS SAKE LEAN INTO THE THING YOU'RE CREATING

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Sure, I can bring my own magick to the table. Nobody's better at that than me. But it's like they're NOT EVEN IN ON THE JOKE

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I'm just over here creating this world by myself and they just look the part, I guess

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
But this is a thing, this has happened with multiple dudes. They create just enough fantasy to generate widespread interest...

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
...and then they coast on that momentum to get lazy and let everything come to them. They stop creating beyond the aesthetic.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
And I mean... it still works...

but is it as fun?

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
It's like if you're a real estate agent saying "hey come check out this house"...
Image

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
...and then I show up and this is the interior:
Image

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
It's like, ok, yeah I COULD maybe make something out of this but it would take me an awful lot of work

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I feel like this is a toxic masculinity/homophobia issue. Commit too hard to a romantic fantasy (a HETERONORMATIVE one) and you must be gay.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Robert Greene talks about this in his chapter on The Dandy in Art of Seduction. The Dandy is often derided by other men for his fem nature.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
BUT NEVER BY WOMEN. Women fucking love him. They feel understood.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
This is what bothers me about so much of the seduction community: men want to seduce in ways that impress other men, not women.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
They think putting in the least effort possible makes them better at it. They're fucking journeymen. There's no craftsmanship.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Seducing in a way that pleases a woman makes them a "beta," "supplicating" 🙄🙄🙄

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I mean... I can't really complain about what I permit 😭

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
But is it fun? Sometimes I look at people's barely-furnished apartments and I'm like, did you forget that you live here?

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I sit in my balcony garden looking at the neighbors' balconies- storage for bikes, junk, all the same plastic venetian blinds in the windows

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Holy shit this is your LIFE. This is your HOME. What are you building?? Did you forget that you have a body??

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
How are you gonna show me what inspires you and then not actually live it? Where's the light in your eyes?
 

linebaugh

Well-known member
Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Ok here's my question tho: how you gonna create a dark fantasy aesthetic, sing panty-dropping lyrics, but then your texts are like.. "u up?"

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
Bro. You put in so much work. You got the haircut, the clothes, the music, the jewelry, the eyeliner.

And then at 12am you're like

"wyd"
8:33 PM · Oct 11, 2017·Twitter for iPhone
5
Retweets
24
Likes

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Replying to
@ardensirens
HOW ARE YOU GONNA GO THAT FAR AND THEN STOP. WHAT IS THE POINT OF CREATING A FANTASY PERSONA IF YOU'RE NOT LIVING IT.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
It's like, I'm picking up what you're putting down. I see what you're creating. Fuck yes I want that. I'm all in.

And then it's like "heyy"

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I'm like "I feel so embodied with you, I feel every nerve ending, every cell connected, to the tips of my fingers"

"it's probably the weed"

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
MY HEART. IT BREAKS. 💔💔💔

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I swear, some of my best work just goes to waste.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
A lot of guys use fuckboy lingo to signal intent, communicating they don't want a relationship. OK BUT THERE ARE SEXIER WAYS TO SAY THAT.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I'm not talking about those creepy LARPy dudes who go around pretending they're Casanova with every woman. That's just gross and try-hard.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
But if you're getting a green light and going in for the kill, FOR FUCKS SAKE LEAN INTO THE THING YOU'RE CREATING

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Sure, I can bring my own magick to the table. Nobody's better at that than me. But it's like they're NOT EVEN IN ON THE JOKE

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I'm just over here creating this world by myself and they just look the part, I guess

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
But this is a thing, this has happened with multiple dudes. They create just enough fantasy to generate widespread interest...

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
...and then they coast on that momentum to get lazy and let everything come to them. They stop creating beyond the aesthetic.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
And I mean... it still works...

but is it as fun?

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
It's like if you're a real estate agent saying "hey come check out this house"...
Image

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
...and then I show up and this is the interior:
Image

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
It's like, ok, yeah I COULD maybe make something out of this but it would take me an awful lot of work

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I feel like this is a toxic masculinity/homophobia issue. Commit too hard to a romantic fantasy (a HETERONORMATIVE one) and you must be gay.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Robert Greene talks about this in his chapter on The Dandy in Art of Seduction. The Dandy is often derided by other men for his fem nature.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
BUT NEVER BY WOMEN. Women fucking love him. They feel understood.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
This is what bothers me about so much of the seduction community: men want to seduce in ways that impress other men, not women.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
They think putting in the least effort possible makes them better at it. They're fucking journeymen. There's no craftsmanship.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Seducing in a way that pleases a woman makes them a "beta," "supplicating" 🙄🙄🙄

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I mean... I can't really complain about what I permit 😭

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
But is it fun? Sometimes I look at people's barely-furnished apartments and I'm like, did you forget that you live here?

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I sit in my balcony garden looking at the neighbors' balconies- storage for bikes, junk, all the same plastic venetian blinds in the windows

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Holy shit this is your LIFE. This is your HOME. What are you building?? Did you forget that you have a body??

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
How are you gonna show me what inspires you and then not actually live it? Where's the light in your eyes?
I follow this account called 'black alien tattoo project' where a man has literally cut of his own lips and thumbs and tattooed his whole body black to look like an alien but still wears tommy bahama shirts and slacks.
 

Leo

Well-known member
If Everything Is ‘Trauma,’ Is Anything?

There are plenty of words to describe somebody like Caleb: deceitful, manipulative, inconsiderate, liar, prick. There is in fact a word, one we can’t print here, created entirely for men like this. But in the souped-up language of today, none of those words seem like enough. “All pain is ‘harm.’ All ‘harm’ is ‘trauma.’ All ‘trauma’ comes from someone who is an ‘abuser,’” said Natalie Wynn, a philosopher turned popular YouTube personality. “It’s as if people can’t articulate disagreement or hardships without using this language.” And so, Caleb became a “predator.”
 

linebaugh

Well-known member
Its actually not his thumb but his pinky and ring finger, so hes got a very alien looking claw

Id post a pick but they give me a very specific feeling of existential dread that I dont want to hoist on anyone
 

WashYourHands

Cat Malogen
Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Ok here's my question tho: how you gonna create a dark fantasy aesthetic, sing panty-dropping lyrics, but then your texts are like.. "u up?"

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
Bro. You put in so much work. You got the haircut, the clothes, the music, the jewelry, the eyeliner.

And then at 12am you're like

"wyd"
8:33 PM · Oct 11, 2017·Twitter for iPhone
5
Retweets
24
Likes

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Replying to
@ardensirens
HOW ARE YOU GONNA GO THAT FAR AND THEN STOP. WHAT IS THE POINT OF CREATING A FANTASY PERSONA IF YOU'RE NOT LIVING IT.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
It's like, I'm picking up what you're putting down. I see what you're creating. Fuck yes I want that. I'm all in.

And then it's like "heyy"

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I'm like "I feel so embodied with you, I feel every nerve ending, every cell connected, to the tips of my fingers"

"it's probably the weed"

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
MY HEART. IT BREAKS. 💔💔💔

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I swear, some of my best work just goes to waste.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
A lot of guys use fuckboy lingo to signal intent, communicating they don't want a relationship. OK BUT THERE ARE SEXIER WAYS TO SAY THAT.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I'm not talking about those creepy LARPy dudes who go around pretending they're Casanova with every woman. That's just gross and try-hard.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
But if you're getting a green light and going in for the kill, FOR FUCKS SAKE LEAN INTO THE THING YOU'RE CREATING

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Sure, I can bring my own magick to the table. Nobody's better at that than me. But it's like they're NOT EVEN IN ON THE JOKE

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I'm just over here creating this world by myself and they just look the part, I guess

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
But this is a thing, this has happened with multiple dudes. They create just enough fantasy to generate widespread interest...

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
...and then they coast on that momentum to get lazy and let everything come to them. They stop creating beyond the aesthetic.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
And I mean... it still works...

but is it as fun?

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
It's like if you're a real estate agent saying "hey come check out this house"...
Image

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
...and then I show up and this is the interior:
Image

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
It's like, ok, yeah I COULD maybe make something out of this but it would take me an awful lot of work

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I feel like this is a toxic masculinity/homophobia issue. Commit too hard to a romantic fantasy (a HETERONORMATIVE one) and you must be gay.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Robert Greene talks about this in his chapter on The Dandy in Art of Seduction. The Dandy is often derided by other men for his fem nature.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
BUT NEVER BY WOMEN. Women fucking love him. They feel understood.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
This is what bothers me about so much of the seduction community: men want to seduce in ways that impress other men, not women.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
They think putting in the least effort possible makes them better at it. They're fucking journeymen. There's no craftsmanship.

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Seducing in a way that pleases a woman makes them a "beta," "supplicating" 🙄🙄🙄

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I mean... I can't really complain about what I permit 😭

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
But is it fun? Sometimes I look at people's barely-furnished apartments and I'm like, did you forget that you live here?

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
I sit in my balcony garden looking at the neighbors' balconies- storage for bikes, junk, all the same plastic venetian blinds in the windows

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
Holy shit this is your LIFE. This is your HOME. What are you building?? Did you forget that you have a body??

Arden Leigh
@ardensirens
·
Oct 11, 2017
How are you gonna show me what inspires you and then not actually live it? Where's the light in your eyes?

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