(1.) The subject desires the object. (2.) The object is responsive/positive. (3.) The subject wants to realize his desire/love. (4.) The object is gone. […]
(1.) V met E in Venezuela and had short affair before they both went back to their countries. (2.) E promised to visit V in Paris (3.) and she invited a group of twelve friends for a dinner with E when he arrives. (4.) E never showed up—the idea frightened E and he canceled his trip. E and V never met again.