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nomadologist

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i don't think there is one at this point. my original point was to talk about sexism and ageism being worse for women.

if you find anything i said offensive, i will erase it, ripley.
 
hey. what's the point of this?

what's the point of this discussion? what are you trying to prove?

...in this case that subjective experience accounts for more than anecdotal evidence

that doing something, seeing it, feeling it and making it happen in the moment makes things a hell of a lot more believable to me than some woman on the net going on about what her friends said...

...i don't need any woman faking an orgasm it does me a disservice and demeans her. I couldn't give a flying fuck if you come or not but no woman should ever feel like they have to fake one to make some insecure dipshit feel 'manly'

and its just as well you're not moderating then isn't it...

...nice vanishing posts BTW nomad why'd you delete them ???

it does make mine seem out of context...oh well

...moving right along, as you were

NEXT...
 

mms

sometimes
...in this case that subjective experience accounts for more than anecdotal evidence

that doing something, seeing it, feeling it and making it happen in the moment makes things a hell of a lot more believable to me than some woman on the net going on about what her friends said...

...i don't need any woman faking an orgasm it does me a disservice and demeans her. I couldn't give a flying fuck if you come or not but no woman should ever feel like they have to fake one to make some insecure dipshit feel 'manly'

and its just as well you're not moderating then isn't it...

...nice vanishing posts BTW nomad why'd you delete them ???

it does make mine seem out of context...oh well

...moving right along, as you were

NEXT...

as ever, the complaint was aimed at you undisputed truth, and you are walking on very very thin ground already.
 

DigitalDjigit

Honky Tonk Woman
nomadologist said:
and trust me, 20-year-olds are no more naive or less lecherous than women in their 30s or 60s, they just know how to play dumb around men to get attention or things.

Do I need to tell you what would tend to be unhealthy about someone over age 40 sleeping with an 18-year-old? The power dynamic would tend to be enormously skewed toward the older party so it would be highly likely that the younger party would be being used or taken advantage of in some way. Of course, it can happen in a perfectly healthy way, I'm sure. In my personal life I've had no problem sleeping with people some would consider "too old" for me. But very few 18-year-olds have the emotional maturity to be in a peer relationship with a 40+-year-old.

This seems very contradictory to me.

Overall I think this was a good discussion and I generally enjoy reading nomadologist's posts but that needs some clearing up. Which is it: are 18 year olds immature and naive or not?
 
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nomadologist

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some are, some aren't. and maybe the point should have been: what's lacking in the life of a 40+-aged person that they'd even go diving in the shallow end of the dating pool?

oh yeah, and in the first one "naive" goes in quotes--i was using it as Guybrush did. "winsome and naive"
 
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swears

preppy-kei
some are, some aren't. and maybe the point should have been: what's lacking in the life of a 40+-aged person that they'd even go diving in the shallow end of the dating pool?

So they should just stay single? I hate people telling me "oh you should just stay single" like I'm some sort of imbecile incapable of a relationship. So to apply that to a whole demographic of people over 40 or whatever is a bit harsh.
 
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nomadologist

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maybe. i mean, i don't personally have a moral objection to it (or really much of anything). but i do think there's an argument to be made from the clinical psychological perspective where it's hard to find "healthy" ground for a relationship between people who have more than 20 years between them.
 
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