"I'm trad, dad!"
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luka
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Ok, as a Dad, if you raise children the whole idea of values is loaded with common sense. Traditional values though? What the fuck does that mean beyond conservative ghosts? As a species we hunted wild animals,and foraged for about 98% of our lifeline. Not sustainable.
@suspended are you a father, because if not why include the Dad part when you haven’t defined trad? Is this the difference between city and country you find yourself in because, from memory, there aren’t too many farms in Brooklyn.
Pithy quotes aren’t a real part of parenting either. Sustainable resourcing is a different subject entirely too.
@suspended are you a father, because if not why include the Dad part when you haven’t defined trad? Is this the difference between city and country you find yourself in because, from memory, there aren’t too many farms in Brooklyn.
Pithy quotes aren’t a real part of parenting either. Sustainable resourcing is a different subject entirely too.
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We don't know what these things are. You have to steer the ship. Steer! Steer!
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I think trads would say that some of the values we've left behind include self-reliance, self-discipline (vs. hedonism), proper valuation of beauty in public spaces/design/the built environment.
I am not a father, and nor do I live in Brooklyn anymore. Probably among cityfolk, pastoralism is a big part of this! Wanting the country. Wanting a small community, where you can be known, recognized, belong.
sus
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the "trad, dad" part was just a reference to the old (British!) television show, It's Trad, Dad!, and also the kinda nice irony that often its young folks, raised to liberal urban parents, who are so desiring a return to olden days (olden days their fathers specifically rebelled against, e.g. in the 69 Revolution)
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frederic jameson says architecture was the first bit of culture to reflect the reaction against high modernism. Frank lloyd wright was haughty and exclusive and the 'aesthetic populism' that followed was that post modern moment where cutting edge artistic and cultural sensibilities aligned completely with the aims of capital
sus
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Actually, it's a result of watching The Devil Wears Prada at 5:45am this morning.
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Why doesn’t Andrea (Devil Wears Prada) leave? “She is vicious,” she complains of her boss Miranda Priestly. “So quit,” Nigel answers. Andrea just fumes, she can’t think of a retort. What she wants is acknowledgment, and when she doesn’t get it at first, she’s furious. “You want to know why she doesn’t kiss you on the forehead and give you a gold star at the end of the day?” Nigel asks. If she wants the matriarchal approval she'll need to be great at her job, and she can’t be great at her job unless she gives her all to it, gives up everything. (See The Prestige with its logic of self-sacrifice.) So Andrea gets a full-blown makeover, gives up all her compunctions about fashion, changes her diet, starts trying to impress people whose opinions she was previously immune to.
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Andy: “My personal life is hanging by a thread.” Nigel: “Join the club. That’s what happens when you start doing well at work, darling. Let me know when your whole life goes up in smoke; that means it’s time to get a promotion.” This is the logic of the Yass Kween school of the 24/7 female neoliberal empowerment firehose.
Note that this attitude comes from male cultures of self-sacrifice, a la Prestige or Departed. Nicholson asks DiCaprio, "You have a girlfriend?" Of course the answer's no, what else could it be. Damon does a bit better with his good-cop routine, manages to snag some UMass tail, but by flick's end she's over him, dumped his ass, and ain't lookin back
Note that this attitude comes from male cultures of self-sacrifice, a la Prestige or Departed. Nicholson asks DiCaprio, "You have a girlfriend?" Of course the answer's no, what else could it be. Damon does a bit better with his good-cop routine, manages to snag some UMass tail, but by flick's end she's over him, dumped his ass, and ain't lookin back
sus
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If you wanna defend these cultures of oblation, the usual approach is an appeal to "excellence," master vs. slave morality. Which is exactly what Ms Wintour/Priestly does, repeatedly. Ditto with Marky Mark's whole "you're not a real cop" routine in The Departed.
And what's the logic of excellence? Excellence is excess—this is the corollary to the 80/20 rule of good enough. All else equal, spreading the energy between games and frontiers of personal ambition, the Pareto-optimal lifeplan(™) loses to bull-headed single-mindedness each and every time.
And what's the logic of excellence? Excellence is excess—this is the corollary to the 80/20 rule of good enough. All else equal, spreading the energy between games and frontiers of personal ambition, the Pareto-optimal lifeplan(™) loses to bull-headed single-mindedness each and every time.