Who else can use your phone?

[sufi]

yeh if i'd leave my phone somewhere and i would find out someone going through my photos or messages i'd be angry.

would you let me go through yr phone?

 

[yyaldrin]

would you let me go through yr phone?

i think for me the problem would be i have all this different personalities that sometimes contradict each other. with one group of friends i am another person than with another group of friends, or with family, or with colleagues. and all these personalities are in my telephone. i wouldn't mind so much to let you go through my phone, because we don't know each other that well, having someone close, a friend, a family member, a colleague go through my phone would be harder for me.

 

[mixed_biscuits]

i think for me the problem would be i have all this different personalities that sometimes contradict each other. with one group of friends i am another person than with another group of friends, or with family, or with colleagues. and all these personalities are in my telephone. i wouldn't mind so much to let you go through my phone, because we don't know each other that well, having someone close, a friend, a family member, a colleague go through my phone would be harder for me.

This is called the Ancient Mariner effect in psychology.

 

[Murphy]

i think for me the problem would be i have all this different personalities that sometimes contradict each other. with one group of friends i am another person than with another group of friends, or with family, or with colleagues. and all these personalities are in my telephone. i wouldn't mind so much to let you go through my phone, because we don't know each other that well, having someone close, a friend, a family member, a colleague go through my phone would be harder for me.

we cycle through a series of selves

do you feel like the same person from day to day or can you vaugely intuit (or precisely conceive of) a cast of characters with different desires, values, modes of operating, interests, abilities and weaknesses?

www.dissensus.com

 

[mixed_biscuits]

'The more you submit to political correctness, distorting and fracturing your true personality to pander to the mob, the more you will suffer'
- Dame Judi Dench

What you are missing is centralisation, a key Bruce Charlton concept.

 

[wg-]

sometimes you're in a pub and your lad is bored but someone wants dessert, so you will have to let him play Minecraft but not before deleting a whatsapp group or twos media just in case; it is what it is

 

[sufi]

i think for me the problem would be i have all this different personalities that sometimes contradict each other. with one group of friends i am another person than with another group of friends, or with family, or with colleagues. and all these personalities are in my telephone. i wouldn't mind so much to let you go through my phone, because we don't know each other that well, having someone close, a friend, a family member, a colleague go through my phone would be harder for me.

i think i'd be quite interested to see your stuff actually, but it's a creepy feeling using someone else's device

 

[sufi]

we cycle through a series of selves

do you feel like the same person from day to day or can you vaugely intuit (or precisely conceive of) a cast of characters with different desires, values, modes of operating, interests, abilities and weaknesses?

www.dissensus.com

i guess i wouldnt mind my smartphone to be inspected by family or friends or colleagues - i try not to use if for much so it's all innocuous
my online life is on my computer, and it feels like it would be awesome to give someone a tour or let them scubadive through it's linuxy depths, (even tho it is all pw protected)
like the phone has a less deep version of me than the pc, but i keep a clean house on both anyhoo

 

[sufi]

sometimes you're in a pub and your lad is bored but someone wants dessert, so you will have to let him play Minecraft but not before deleting a whatsapp group or twos media just in case; it is what it is

i'm wondering whether whatsapp and smartphones make people more secretive and generally how that is playing out

 

[wg-]

Sure probably

 

[sufi]

could i borrow your phone for a moment, @martin?

 

[wg-]

I mean people used to lock their diaries i am led to believe

 

[sufi]

i'm not even goona ask droid cos he has secret identity issues and anyway does not use a phone as he has sim and circuitry built in

 

[sufi]

I mean people used to lock their diaries i am led to believe

yeah and some of weirdest used to probably carry them around all day long and obsessively refer to them in every spare moment like everybody does now

 

[martin]

could i borrow your phone for a moment, @martin?

Where are you calling?

 

[sufi]

Where are you calling?

hmm dunno depends whos in your contacts i guess

 

[sufi]

what secrets do you keep in your phone @mixed_biscuits ?

 

[mixed_biscuits]

what secrets do you keep in your phone @mixed_biscuits ?

Not using my phone at the moment as am allergic to the screen; still looking for a mobile that has no screen.

 

[sufi]

Not using my phone at the moment as am allergic to the screen; still looking for a mobile that has no screen.

Amazon product ASIN B07QXVG5TL
it's annoying how "non-smart" phones are aimed at people who can't use "smart" phones, rather than people who don't want to

 

[sufi]

@catalog why wouldnt you let @luka look at yr phone?