Was just gonna stop by to mention a couple things, then skimmed the last few pages and jesus fucking christ
Note how any "compromises" made in sports, prisons, shortlists etc will always be gains in favour of biological males, not females.
They don't want compromise though. If it was just a matter of matter of pronouns or whatever no one would really give a shit.
I'd hope that at the close of play, however long that takes, we could go back to that, but the demands have been ramped up to such an insane level and so many people have been implicated in their support of it, that I don't really see an end to it.
Once you've publicly advocated for or supported surgeries and hormones for young people, there's no going back even if you later regret it, you have to double down. And so it goes on...
First off, transphobes lose their shit constantly about "pronouns or whatever". The latest flash point is toxic gamer bros losing their mind about a science fiction video game letting you pick pronouns in character creation, but if you spend two minutes lookoing at any random selection of TERF/GC Twitter accounts, FB groups, whatever, it will be full of complaints about pronouns and trolls telling any trans adult "you'll always be a man/woman", "you're mentally ill", "there's no such thing as transgender" etc ad inf.
Second, more importantly, a key tenet of TERF ideology - probably its central tenet, if you're familiar enough with the 70s radical feminism from which it descends - is gatekeeping womanhood, not only from trans women, but from any woman who doesn't embody or agree with that ideology. It's most crudely expressed - like, extremely crudely, coming from nominally high-minded academic types - against trans women, but it also includes any woman who chooses to do sex work, or to present in a traditionally feminine way, or who disagrees with TERFs/SWERFs.
Two things follow from that - one, the claim that cis women have to protected from men in everything because they are inferior to men in everything. Chess, Esports, beauty pageants (yes), doesn't matter. Another, this complaint about trans women taking up limited spaces instead of recognizing that the common problem is patriarchy, and that feminism and trans rights should be (and are, outside of TERFs) allies in the struggle against patriarchy to create more spaces for all women, cis and trans. TERFs would rather ally with literal Nazis, ultramisogynist trad bros, and religious fanatics to oppress trans people than ally with them to fight patriarchy.
And finally, a cis dude telling trans people they should be happy with "their pronouns or whatever", fuck right off lmao. It's the same thing as telling gay people be happy you're out of the closet, now stop asking for equal rights and to be respected as full human beings with bodily autonomy like anyone else.