the former will certainly get you laid much more than the later.
good looking people with stuff.
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the former will certainly get you laid much more than the later.
i never said this girl is or is not a "slut", a derogatory term i don't particularly like to use either (except in bed).
but she was positively DRESSED like one. i am certain that everyone in the room, including herself, would agree.
no it was not "fetish gear". it wasn't some latex future costume. it also wasn't tasteful revealing high end erotic wear. it was a "stupid slut costume". no more, no less. if any of you saw it you would all agree as well.
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This is a favourite trick of 'pick-up artists' to hit on fit women - if they think that they aren't attractive to you, then they consider it a challenge to get you to change your mind.
Complimenting them on their accessories rather than something attached directly to their body (eg. hair, limbs, breasts) has the same affect. (Apparently).
Yet more games-playing. :slanted:
i know what you mean but don't rule out possibilities because stranger things have happened... i met a girl when i was 23 at a big mega type club and it turned into an off and on 10 year relationship, the major one in my life so far, which has profoundly shaped me in so many positive ways... i still talk to her often, even from Germany. (but i think it was a really freak occurance because that night was the first and last time either one of us ever went to that club)
Mr. Tea
Let's Talk About Ceps
Or it could backfire by making her think you're gay (recognising the brand of shoes she's wearing might be taking it a bit far, for example). But then again, maybe she'd take this as a challenge and try to 'turn' you - although I'm not sure this actually happens outside of sitcoms or people's fantasies.
Edit: zhao's experience sounds a bit like mine - I'd generally say night clubs are shit for pulling, but by far the most successful relationship I've had, and the one I'm still in, came about by me and my now-girlfriend meeting in a club. Well, we'd kind of met a day or two earlier, but not properly. I think it helped that it was a really shit club, as we were both quite keen to get out of there.
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Jaie Miller
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last night it was,
oh, so you play sax [the sound of my soul]
the thing was, she had dread locks and i was thinking
what you gone do with all them lice all them lice inside your dreads?!!!
oh, so you play sax [the sound of my soul]
the thing was, she had dread locks and i was thinking
what you gone do with all them lice all them lice inside your dreads?!!!
oh man... a long time heart throb is coming to visit in the summer... one i've ached for for so long... she's so lovely and so perfect i want to destroy everything in the world. she might stay in berlin and if she does all my other lovers will get the "let's be friends" talk.
how many lovers do you have at the moment??
just 2. 1 has been put on back burner because of extraneous circumstances but will make a come back any time. 2nd one is rocking the party right now. BOOMING SOUND. 3rd one is cued up, ready to jump in the mix (good lord willing, tomorrow night). 3 turntables... trickier than 2 but avoiding train wrecks gets easier with practice. the most at one time was 4... takes a lot of energy but i was really in shape at that time. not sure if i can pull that off now... ready to have a go though 
Mr. Tea
Let's Talk About Ceps
Photos, or it didn't happen.
Pulchritude
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Males who do this are evil. But I'm ashamed to say that 'd probably be much more attracted to someone if I think he's not particularly interested, than a guy who's just too obvious. I can't explain it, really. Chemical imbalance in the brain?
bassnation
the abyss
well, i'm not a woman so you'd be better placed to know, but i always thought it was something to do with the fact that every woman gets hit on every single day and the way to stand out from the dorks is to avoid doing the same thing as them.
and as a man, i'm more interested in women who i have to chase. if a woman chases me i assume theres something wrong with them. i kind of like the idea of being seduced, but really i prefer things the way they are.
i've also tried that technique where you disqualify yourself as a partner in quite a subtle way which is supposed to make them want to prove you wrong, unbeleivably it does work. i hate to play these games, it would be great just to be straight forward but if i did, i wouldn't be having very much sex or relationships at all.
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