Happy Black Friday Caroline Polachek

[sus]

we have no idea what crush theory is Gus

Luckily my op linked two essays and excerpted relevant paragraphs; you can also check out festive grave's "crush theory, against decathexis" channel on Are.na, or my Tiqqun channel, "The Young Girl Does Not Love, She Loves Herself Loving"

 

[sus]

A couple of the elements:

- Fantasy projection onto the other
- A constant reading of the environment for signs
- A deep need to resolve the ambiguous/indeterminate
- The way this need can lead to self-sabotaging (b/c at least then the matter's certain)
- The importance of the crush's opinion of you/reciprocation to your own self-valuation
- A belief in winning the crush as end-all, be-all, ticket to happiness

 

[luka]

i do like the incel stuff as ive said many times before, im always sticking up for it, but at the same time it does make me feel quite grubby

 

[sus]

"Crushing" can be platonic too, many of these elements come into the fold with new friendships, with people online, with parasociality

 

[sus]

i do like the incel stuff as ive said many times before, im always sticking up for it, but at the same time it does make me feel quite grubby

This is femcel stuff tho, important difference.

My trend forecast for 2022 is it's the year of the femcel, I'm gonna write a piece on femcel theory

 

[sus]

If you wanna understand femcels go here: https://lolcow.farm/g

 

[linebaugh]

If you wanna understand femcels go here: https://lolcow.farm/g

This is very good

 

[sus]

This is very good

Now check out the Tiqqun channel

 

[wektor]

itt serious middle aged people cannot swallow up the youths belief in transgressive factor of pop music
(i dont believe it either but it is this generation's thing)

 

[woops]

A couple of the elements:
- Fantasy projection onto the other
- A constant reading of the environment for signs
- A deep need to resolve the ambiguous/indeterminate
- The way this need can lead to self-sabotaging (b/c at least then the matter's certain)
- The importance of the crush's opinion of you/reciprocation to your own self-valuation
- A belief in winning the crush as end-all, be-all, ticket to happiness

- Fantasy projection onto the other
while reading hotel concierge i noticed a strong dose of censure in his thinking. like if you nerds could stop projecting fantasies it'd be good all round. thing is you do this involuntarily. like it or not. it always happens, even if you know at the time that that's what you're doing you still get the "effects"

- The way this need can lead to self-sabotaging (b/c at least then the matter's certain)
not sure if i've ever deliberately messed things up with my favourite indie pop singer, by stupidity many times but not deliberately

- The importance of the crush's opinion of you/reciprocation to your own self-valuation
a beautiful thing

- A belief in winning the crush as end-all, be-all, ticket to happiness
works

 

[luka]

no one has crushes past the age of 17

 

[woops]

no one has crushes past the age of 17

you haven't had one since you were 5 correct?

 

[luka]

thats correct yes.

 

[luka]

 

[wektor]

no one on this forum is in touch with their emotional side if they are male and past the age of 17

 

[wektor]

hence luka's hate against the sensuality of house music

 

[luka]

hence luka's hate against the sensuality of house music

its not sensual its vapid

 

[luka]

house is music for people who are dead inside. this is what you want

 

[luka]

three sexually confident middle aged men singing about love and desire

 

[wektor]

house is music for people who are dead inside. this is what you want

this sounds like something rabit would remix on one of the chopped and screwed tapes.
it bangs, not sure what's the problem with it apart from the original speed perhaps