"it was ok i suppose" : a non reaction to "polarazing" things

sus

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To be fair to Rich, I have watched Mulholland Drive going on a dozen times now, and I think it is very indeterminate what is real and what is fantasy, and whose fantasy exactly is playing out. Also, it can still be a single person's fantasy of a two-person magical world. Also, I thought Rich's explanation was beautiful.
 

sufi

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any thoughts you wanna share @sufi? i feel this got derailed immediately the second i typed Mullholland Drive
I watched that film in LA with @HannahB iirc after driving up mulholland drive or poss before driving down it. @HB is a proper film person

it sure did derail quick. i'm not really a films buff, so i've kind of opted out of that contest - these online platforms create a competitive environment and that drives everything to extremities, ideologically, as well as in taste and levels of snark and glurge
i personally have not connected my irl persona very closely with my online one -i mean i still see them as separate things - but increasingly online impinges on real life as we track and broadcast and project ourselves more and more intensely, so the public persona is just getting bigger and bigger proportions of airtime, while the ambivalent fleshy homunculous crawls head bowed into it's matrix pod, if you see what i mean?
 

IdleRich

IdleRich
This sounds like a depressing way to live
I think if you've read that as any kind of a description of some kind of "way to live" I've written it much worse than I thought.... and I thought I'd written it fairly badly.

Let me rephrase, avoiding metaphor or any other kind of complex wordplay including puns, sarcasm etc

When I was 16 years old I realised that when we were asked our opinion on something we were supposed to have strong reactions... if we liked a thing we had to say that it was our favourite thing ever, but, if we didn't we had to say stuff about how it was the worst thing of all time anywhere in the world ever and, ideally, we should then elaborate on the specific type of testicular cancer we wanted its creators to suffer from and how drawn out their deaths should be.

All well and good it's just... quite a lot of things didn't fit those categories. Of course, for a film critic the best fun is to write about a terrible film, especially a terrible film that people thought was gonna be good. In that circumstance you can fire up all your best weapons, dig out some killer insults you've been saving up for next time your worst enemy says something on dissensus - but that don't matter, noone reads dissensus so you can use it slag off Mr Tea AND Savages (I mention Savages because, I was just flicking through the channels and that film was on, have you ever seen that film? It's a real bad one. Like really bad. I was just about to lay into the savage glee that yer average critic deploys against even slightly bad films, but with a film like this it's fully deserved. Savages is so bad, I had completely forgotten it existed, yet at the same time, sometimes it pops unbidden into my head and wrecks my day, it's the worst... anyway). But after a terrible film, the next most fun is a great film. Mediocre film? Hard to get too excited about, hard to write well about, mediocre in so many ways they transpose their mediocrity to other genres around them including criticism.

The point is, mediocre and the just ok, get written out of history. We all know most things are mediocre, but we rarely read a review of such and we don't use the description as much as we should. Well, maybe we do now, as we've matured into (in most of our cases) mediocrity. But... I got interrupted in my reading, but if that was roughly what this thread was about then I wholeheartedly agree. Though as a point, it really is quite a middling one, six out of ten probably....
 
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IdleRich

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It's ultimately one person's private, safe, magical Narnia. A fantasy of Naomi Watts' character.
Yes, that's what I mean when I said "if we accept it's real". I think at that point of the film, certainly the first time i saw it at least, it felt real. Maybe if I were smarter I would have spotted at the time that it was too perfect and too safe and so on... but I was just sucked into it. Now, I think there is no plausible reading of the film I've seen that allows you to believe it's anything other than a fantasy... but I don't think that undermines anything of what I said about how I first experienced and understood it - albeit wrongly in the end.
 

IdleRich

IdleRich
To be fair to Rich, I have watched Mulholland Drive going on a dozen times now, and I think it is very indeterminate what is real and what is fantasy, and whose fantasy exactly is playing out. Also, it can still be a single person's fantasy of a two-person magical world. Also, I thought Rich's explanation was beautiful.
Thanks mate, I feel that you are sticking up for me and I don't want to throw it back in your face and I am glad you think it's beautiful BUT I do have to make it clear, that although as you're watching it it feels that way, at the same time I'm not saying that it's what is going on, it's not the reality of the film. I totally agree that that whole relationship is a fantasy. In fact, by Lynch standards, the non-reality of that whole thing is one of the most clearcut and inarguable bits... in fact, now I come to think of it properly, it's actually too clear cut, perhaps it's a red herring, it's exactly what he wants you to think... no, that's mental, sorry ignore me. But in the moment, at that time, it feels real... in fact it is real for them in that instant.
 
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forclosure

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That's one of the things that most irritates me about seeing a lot of arguments online. the point seems to be the arguing rather than whatever's being argued. Everyone reads things as disingenuously as possible and pretends they don't get the point in order to pursue the argument and have more ammo.
"generating more heat than light" as they call it
 

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@version those "type of guy" memes feel like the logical next step from tweets by disgruntled white women about the one bad date they had with some guy and how if he has certain specific books you shouldn't fuck him
 

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Interesting point, and then the story and characters are forced into these molds which are subordinated to the thesis. I'm sure this can be pulled off in some creative cases, but in general it seems pretty hollow.
Walter Hill said something similiar about this with boxing films, how they always end up never being about the sport it's always about some larger bullshit metaphor
 

version

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@version those "type of guy" memes feel like the logical next step from tweets by disgruntled white women about the one bad date they had with some guy and how if he has certain specific books you shouldn't fuck him
There are "red flag" films too. Fight Club, American Psycho, The Dark Knight. That sort of thing.
 

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anyways thanks @version for actually trying to engage with my question

instead of certain man here who just turned this into ANOTHER thing about Lynch,fantasy/reality lesbian sex and whatever other bullshit that doesnt have to do with what i asked
 

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There are "red flag" films too. Fight Club, American Psycho, The Dark Knight. That sort of thing.
there's a film podcast i check out from time to time where one of the hosts likes to bring up the existance of a "feral books guy" but really he knows he's just imagined this person up and he's just talking about himself lol
 

version

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Making up a hypothetical person to be angry at seems to be a huge thing on Twitter. You just precision engineer someone designed to annoy you then tweet about them.
 

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its funny that The Times of all places wrote that cause there's a certain "type of guy" that i'd associate with reading that paper well not really a guy just a aggravating rich older man whose terrified of everything and feels like our "traditional institutions" are under threat
 

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Making up a hypothetical person to be angry at seems to be a huge thing on Twitter. You just precision engineer someone designed to annoy you then tweet about them.
MASSIVLY even people who you think would know better get caught up in it

I don't know if its just the way the site works just bringing out the worst tendencies in people but it does have this knack of doing it to people that and thinking whatever talking point of the day their having deep discussions over is more important than that it really is
 

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@version makes you think about the weird way in which such an importance is put on "small talk" the whole thing that you engage with certain things not cause you like them just so if you happen to run into a person at work and they ask you about it you can say "yeah i did..was alright" so you're not left out or what have you

the much vaunted and mythical "water cooler conversation" that i've heard people talk about which really twitter is just a really aggressive version of that

tbh i don't think people have had small talk around the water cooler in a looong long time, definitly not now
 
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