Gabba Flamenco Crossover
High Sierra Skullfuck
Do you know that once you've been a victim of rape, you're more likely to be raped again than someone who hasn't?
Ok, I'm sure that's true - it certainly seems plausable to me. But it's got nothng to do with the criticism I made above, which is that you need to be more precise and signal your meaning more carefully. Throwing around highly charged facts like this without any context just obscures the issue even more. I don't think that does anything to help anyone - not the millions of women who have experienced rape or sexual abuse, or the millions of men who are making a genuine effort to understand the world from thier point of view (and I think most of the male posters in this thread fall into that latter catagory, I know I do).
Can't you see this is a vicious circle? You get more wound up, you project the perfectly valid feelings you have about the men you have known onto total strangers, who take offence at being judged by someone they've never met, make light of your opinions as a result, which just enrages you more and more.
I know my own mind. I'm not a creep or a rapist, potential or actual. You clearly know a lot about this subject and I'd be really interested in discussing it with you properly, but you really need to take a step back and disengage from this issue a little bit.
Just seen your last post which is a lot more balanced, so hopefully this is moving onto somewhere more constructive.